Selena Gomez: Pining After Justin Bieber, Wishing SHE Were His Fiancee?!

There have been recent claims that Justin Bieber always knew that Hailey Baldwin was the one, even while he was with Selena Gomez.

So it’s only natural that we’re hearing from Selena’s camp on Justin, Hailey, and their looming nuptials.

According to one source, Selena hopes that the fateful wedding day never arrives.

According to HollywoodLife, a source close to Selena Gomez says that she is hoping that Justin and Hailey never make it to the altar.

The insider claims that “Selena is quietly, secretly hoping and praying that Justin never goes through with his marriage to Hailey.”

The source says that, despite having broken up with the Biebs for what many fans hope will be the final time earlier this year, Selena is waxing nostalgic about her time with him.

“The times Selena was most happy in life were days when she was with Justin,” the source claims.

“And she always thought she would be the one marrying him,” the insider reveals. “Not Hailey.”

Justin and Hailey are engaged, though some very believable reports say that they’re not rushing and are instead waiting until next year.

But this source says that any delay is music to Selena’s ears.

“Selena can’t help but feel like the longer Justin and Hailey stay engaged the less likely they will actually get married,” the source claims.

She and Justin have a long history and, despite their many troubles, she allegedly feels that they’re not done with each other.

“Selena fears a marriage between Justin and Hailey would crush her,” the insider describes.

That said, if you’re waiting for her to rush in like a lovesick fool and ask Justin to take her back … don’t hold your breath.

“Selena would never interfere with Justin’s relationship with Hailey though,” the source clarifies.

“So,” the insider continues. “She is not going to say anything to him.”

Well, that sounds healthy.

“But she also feels that as long as Justin and Hailey do not get married,” the source says. “She stands a better chance at having her own happy ending with Justin.”

It’s sort of odd to hear that Selena is still pining after Justin.

One would imagine that, after their latest reconnection didn’t pan out, she would have realized that they are simply not meant to be.

He may no longer have the same alleged substance issues that he had through the bulk of his relationship with Selena.

But sometimes, as Selena herself no doubt discovered last winter, a person’s individual failings can go deeper than, say, struggles with sobriety.

Does Selena really want to relive that, only to learn the same hard lesson again?

Here is what we are totally willing to believe: that Selena Gomez is hoping and perhaps even praying that Justin and Hailey’s wedding day never arrives.

Why? Because Selena is a good person.

And she wouldn’t want Hailey’s life to be defined by making the same mistake that Selena has made multiple times, but amplified with marriage vows.

It’s very believable that Selena hopes that a younger, lovestruck woman can learn from her mistakes instead of repeating them.

The bit about wishing that she were engaged to Justin … we get the feeling that if that’s what Selena wanted, they’d be engaged.


Justin Bieber: I’m Not Rushing to Marry Hailey Baldwin, But She’s the One!

It’s been over a month since Justin Bieber proposed to Hailey Baldwin. That was when the two hotties, who had until very recently been exes, became engaged.

Though reports have said that Justin and Hailey are already making wedding plans, a new report says that these two aren’t racing towards the altar.

But we do have a ballpark estimate of when they are likely to get married.

Sources close to Justin Bieber tell TMZ a few illuminating facts about the Biebs and his relationship with fiancee Hailey Baldwin.

First and foremost, even though these two had barely started dating against before Justin popped the question, that doesn’t mean that they’re racing towards the altar.

The insider tells TMZ that they’re not planning on actually tying the knot until 2019.

The insider says that this isn’t an issue of them being unsure abou their upcoming nuptials.

TMZ compares the delay to how Miley Cyrus and Liam Hemsworth might never get married, because they feel like the engagement is enough.

Sources also told them that this thing between Justin and Hailey was allegedly more intense than the public realizes.

“Justin’s been in love with her for a long time,” an insider tells TMZ.

“So,” the source explains. “This didn’t just come from out of the blue.”

In fact, TMZ has been told that Justin and Hailey have reunited … and then broken up again … multiple times without the knowledge of fans.

We believe that.

Of course, sources also tell TMZ that the public is totally wrong in their belief that the Biebs was fixated on Selena Gomez for all of this time.

These insiders close to Justin are claiming that Justin’s really had his heart set on Hailey, not Selena, for the past few years.

HollywoodLife looked at this and asked the question that’s on the mind of many fans after reading this: did Justin hook up with Hailey while he was with Selena?

It’s difficult to picture Hailey being a part of that.

But it sounds like, at the very least, Justin was allegedly pining after Hailey during his months-long reunion with Selena.

Now, all of this is very sweet and makes it sound like Hailey was always Justin’s first choice and like Selena was, at best, some sort of distraction.

But … while we absolutely believe that some very reliable sources close to the Biebs made these claims, are they true?

Or are they just what Justin wants the world to believe?

Call us conspiracy theorists, but we cannot help but wonder if maybe Justin is deliberately pushing this narrative in the hope that it reassures Hailey that she’s not just a runner-up.

At the very least, he might be trying to convince his fans that he’s not another Arie Luyendyk Jr. and that Hailey was always his true love.

That said … a lot of people can and do convince themselves that the person to whom they propose is the only person they’ve ever really loved.

The term cognitive dissonance gets misused more often than it gets used properly, but it’s a real psychological phenomenon and it really can lead people to believe new things based upon their most recent words and actions.

So if Justin is telling his close buddies that he’s always believed that Hailey’s the girl for him, he may very well believe it — despite his lengthy and also very recent history with Selena Gomez.

Many fans have noted that Justin seduced Hailey just like how he seduced Selena.

And it of course did not go unnoticed that he only reconnected with Hailey after Selena broke things off.

But regardless of all of that, it’s comforting to hear that Justin and Hailey aren’t racing to the altar.

Next year sounds like a fine time for them to tie the knot.

… Assuming that they last that long.

Some of us, after all, are betting that Ariana Grande and Pete Davidson last longer.

But only time will tell.


Justin Bieber & Hailey Baldwin: Abstaining From Sex Until Marriage?!

By now, you’ve probably heard the news that Justin Bieber and Hailey Baldwin are getting married.

There was a time when such a development would’ve been treated with widespread skepticism.

These days, however, Justin seems to have turned over a new leaf.

Don’t get us wrong, there are still many people who think he and Hailey will never make it down the aisle — and many more who believe their marriage is doomed for failure.

But if this were the Bieber who was still attacking paparazzi and making life hell for Selena Gomez, it would be a question of when he would royally mess this thing up, not if.

By all accounts, the Justin of 2018 is a far cry from the obnoxious twerp the whole world wanted to smack just a few short years ago.

He’s toned down the douchiness; he’s sober(-ish); and he’s reportedly seen the error of his old ways.

And in the proud tradition of reformed celebs that dates back to the time when silent film stars used to be found passed out in bathtubs full of Prohibition gin, Justin has found Jesus.

It turns out the savior wasn’t hiding between some groupie’s legs, as Justin apparently suspected for so many years.

Anyway, Hailey was raised in a devoutly religious home, and Justin is trying to make up for all his years of wanton devilry by leaning way into this Ned Flanders routing he’s got going on these days.

As a result, Bieber and Baldwin are participating in an experiment that once would have been unthinkable for the Biebs.

According to Star magazine, Justin and Hailey are abstaining from sex until their wedding night.

They’ve done it in the past, of course, but it seems that these days, the couple is so serious about keeping their hands off one another that they’ve been sleeping in separate locations.

“They’re both very religious and they want to abstain until they’re married,” claims one insider.

“Justin’s a recent convert, but Hailey was brought up with religion her whole life.”

The source adds:

“It’s important to them to wait. So after their dates, he goes to a hotel and she goes to her apartment.”

Who would have thought we’d see a time when Justin freakin’ Bieber would be abiding by the Duggar courtship rules.

Of course, like Hailey, we’re assuming the Biebs is unaccompanied during all those nights in his hotel room.

Can’t say we’d be surprised if he occasionally invited some “company” over.


Selena Gomez to Justin Bieber: Congrats on the Engagement, Jerk!

It’s been three weeks since Justin Bieber got engaged to Hailey Baldwin, and millions of Beliebers are still reeling in shock from the news.

Of course, no one was more shocked than Justin’s most famous ex, Selena Gomez.

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Reports about Selena’s reaction have varied, but accounts concur that she was shocked by the engagement.

Some have claimed that Selena was happy to be rid of Justin for good, while others say she would do anything to win him back.

The former scenario was always much more believable, and it’s supported by a new report from Star Magazine.

The tabloid claims that Selena recently wrote a letter to Justin congratulating him on his engagement.

“Selena was initially blindsided by Justin’s wedding plans, but after lots of contemplation realized it’s for the best, and told him so in a letter,” a source told the tabloid.

“She told pals it gave her enormous closure, because it marked the end of a long, painful chapter of her life.”

The insider claims that with the mailing of the letter (frankly, we’re finding it tough to believe that Selena really still uses snail mail, but whatever), Selena felt that she had permanently turned the page on an important chapter in her life:

“Selena doesn’t want to be linked to Justin forever,” the insider said.

“She really just wants to get on with her life. She doesn’t want to be part of the Justin circus anymore.” 

A separate source says Selena looks forward to a future in which she and Justin can enjoy a relationship as platonic friends and share memories of their time together: 

“Selena hopes to get to a point where she looks back on her time with Justin fondly and moves on,” the insider claims.

“At the end of the day, she only wants the best for him.” 

Well, if this report is accurate, then that’s awfully mature of Selena.

Of course, it’s no surprise that she would seize the opportunity to be the bigger person.

Not only has she always been much more emotionally evolved than Justin, she’s now unburdened of the baggage that may have prevented her from seeking out a relationship with someone who’s actually on her level.

It’s a win-win!