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Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott: FINALLY Saving Their Marriage?!

Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott have not had the easiest time in recent years, and their relationship has paid the price.

The good news is that Tori and Dean are finally fixing their marriage — and it’s made a world of difference.

And the fact that they’ve entered marriage counseling is only part of the solution.

An inside source spoke extensively with Entertainment Tonight about Tori and Dean’s relationship and how much it’s changed in just a few months.

The insider shares that the two of them have “started counseling” in order to mend the strained elements of their union.

“Tori and Dean are very much in love,” the source explains. “And have dedicated themselves to improving their marriage.”

That sounds like what is best for them and for their many, many children.

“They built a family together,” the source continues. “And plan on raising their kids as a team.”

Last March, unfortunately, there was a frightening incident — and Dean felt that he had no choice but to call the police.

“They realized things got completely out of hand when their blowout fights became very public,” the insider shares.

Hey, whatever works as a wakeup call.

“As painful as that period has been in their life,” the source continues. “It was also very eye-opening for them.”

Sometimes, you have to hit rock bottom to realize how far you’ve fallen.

Ever the optimists, the two of them have decided to put a positive spin on an otherwise frightening incident.

“Tori and Dean see Tori’s experience as a nervous breakthrough rather than a nervous breakdown,” the insider reveals.

You know what? That’s actually kind of beautiful. So long as they don’t forget to take mental health seriously.

“Because,” the source explains. “It led them back to the right path and a healthier life together.”

If it works, it works.

Apparently what prompted them to redouble their efforts to patch things up was staring into the potential abyss that would come with a divorce.

“They both looked at what they were giving up by losing one another,” the insider describes.

Whatever they foresaw of their potentially single futures, it was clearly not a pretty picture.

“And,” the source continues. “Were willing and ready to do what it takes to make their relationship work.”

Good for them!

It sounds like things have really turned around over the past several months.

Perserverance pays off.

“They started counseling again,” the insider confirms. “And turned everything around.”

“They realized that most of their stress stemmed from their money issues,” the source says.

We think that literally everyone else who knows anything about the couple could have said that a long time ago.

“They’re now working closely with an accountant to help fix their financial situation,” the insider assures ET. “They’ve since made some big changes.”

One huge change is that Dean is acting again.

Apparently, a lot of the pressure on their marriage has now “lifted” as a result.

“Their family dynamic is completely different,” the source reveals.

“Tori loves Dean and wants him to have success,” the insider continues. “She also wants her mother to be happy.”

“She’s relied on her mother for help and her mother has always felt Dean needed to contribute,” the source explains. “So this is truly a win-win situation.”

Just because your mom is loaded doesn’t mean that she’s going to fund your entire family’s lifestyle — but Tori’s mom has helped out a lot.

Tori also came to terms with a huge source of stress — trying to be a nonstop parent to all five of her children without any time for self-care.

“She never gave herself a break,” the insider reports.

“Now,” the source is happy to say. “She’s balancing everything with the help of some extra childcare.”

It sounds like both counseling and an improved financial situation have really helped.

“Having full-time help is expensive,” the insider admits. “But taking care of five children on your own is close to impossible.”

Then there is the subject of Tori’s career.

“Tori definitely wants to work again,” the source shares. “And is considering several reality show opportunities,”

However, some of those close to her are nudging her in a different direction.

“But,” the insider continues. “Her team seems to be encouraging her to go back to scripted television,”

That’s her bread and butter. It could also really help to reduce her real-life drama.

“First and foremost,” the source explains. “Tori is an actress, and some of her closest friends now support the idea of returning to scripted television.”

On scripted television, the show’s not all about you, but it tends to bleed into your real life a little less.

“They feel taking some of the focus away from her personal life would be helpful,” the insider concludes. “And she is beginning to warm up to the idea.”

Well that is definitely exciting. More job opportunities and fewer 9-1-1 calls are at least part of a recipe for a happy, healhty marriage.

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Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott: FINALLY Getting Divorced?!

Rumors about Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott getting divorced have been circulating since … well, about the time that the troubled couple got married.

But this time around, it seems Dean has actually taken steps toward bringing an end to what might be Hollywood’s most dysfunctional marriage.

According to Radar Online, McDermott has moved out on Spelling and is expected to file for divorce in the near future.

Sources tell the site that Dean moved out after spending the Fourth of July holiday with Tori and their five children.

He reportedly has not been back to the house since.

“Tori’s behavior has sent him to a breaking point,” says one insider.

That behavior includes a number of emotional breakdowns, the worst of which prompted Dean to call the cops on Tori for behaving erratically.

After those episodes, Spelling and McDermott assured fans that they’re still married, but they’ve been quiet in the weeks since.

Tori’s recent mental health issues may have been the straw that broke the camel’s back, but they certainly weren’t the first sign of trouble for her and Dean.

For years, fans have been expecting a divorce announcement, as the couple continues to make headlines with their marital issues.

The trouble seems to have started when Dean was caught cheating on Tori with mistress Emily Goodhand.

To say the years that followed weren’t always kind to the McDermott clan would be a massive understatement.

Tori and Dean went broke, drove up seven-figure debts to their creditors, and were forced to downsize to a much smaller home in not-so-posh Encino.

Their financial stresses show no signs of letting up, and just last year, Dean was almost imprisoned for failure to pay child support to his first wife.

Needless to say, it’s not hard to see how all of this might have put a considerable strain on Tori and Dean’s marriage.

Reports the couple is on the brink of calling it quits date back to early 2018, when sources say they began living separate lives.

“Tori and Dean have been sleeping in separate bedrooms for the past six weeks,” a family insider told Radar back in April.

“Things have been very bad at home between them.”

Spelling and McDermott have been quiet on the matter thus far, but if we know them, they’re feverishly pitching a reality show about their crumbling marriage at this very moment.

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Tori Spelling & Dean McDermott: Getting Sober to Save Their Marriage?!

Even though that their marriage seems to be one long rough patch, Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott are still together after 12 years.

This despite the fact that Dean’s been caught cheating on multiple occasions and the two of them don’t even really seem to like each other.

Lately, it’s Tori and Dean’s money troubles that have grabbed them the most tabloid headlines, and it’s not hard to see why.

After all, these aren’t typical celebrity money problems like when Johnny Depp was forced to sell his yacht.

No, this is coupon-clipping, mayonnaise sandwich-eating, regular folk poverty.

Last year alone, Tori and Dean were sued twice by American Express for separate outstanding debts totaling $ 87,595 and $ 37,981, respectively.

Add to that the couple’s two federal tax liens for  $ 707,487 and $ 184,390, and it’s plain to see that Tori and Dean are pretty screwed.

Last year, Spelling and McDermott sold their mansion in posh Calabasas and relocated to the considerably less-posh Encino.

But apparently, that wasn’t enough to pull them out of the hole they’re in.

Even after taking several severe austerity measures, McDermott was nearly imprisoned for unpaid child support.

It’s enough to make outsiders wonder what the hell Tori and Dean are doing wrong.

In all likelihood, a combination of factors and circumstances have landed the couple in their current predicament, but those who know them best say the McDermotts’ substance abuse certainly isn’t helping their situation.

It’s sort of a chicken-and-egg situation, as Tori’s pill-popping has reportedly worsened in response to her financial woes, but the consensus seems to be that both she and Dean need to sober up before it’s too late.

“They know their lives and the lives of their kids are hanging in the balance,” a source close to the pair tells Radar Online.

“They have to pull it together before it’s too late.”

Being born extremely wealthy is objectively good in most respects, but it doesn’t prepare you for financial difficulties later in life.

And it seems Tori is beginning to crack under the pressure.

“Tori is losing it, mentally and physically. She’s been depressed, anxious and behaving erratically,” says the source.

“She is crying to anyone who will listen that she feels backed up on a ledge.”

The insider adds that Tori was prescribed various anti-anxiety medications by her doctor, and has since become addicted to the pills:

“Tori has been dependent on the meds,” the informant says.

“They were affecting her behavior. She and Dean decided it would be best for her to wean herself off the pills, so she could be 100 percent present for her husband and her children.”

For his part, McDermott sobered up in 2014 after decades of alcoholism, but he’s reportedly fallen off the wagon in recent months.

“Dean’s drinking led to him cheating on Tori in December 2013,” says the source. 

“And this only added to Tori’s stress.”

The insider claims that neither Tori and Dean are completely sober yet, but both have taken steps to curtail their substance intake.

“Once Tori began to get her meds under control, Dean decided to get sober, too,” said the source.

“They know it’s their last chance.”

Yeesh. Look, we might make fun of Tori and Dean a lot here, but it sounds like these two are in desperate need of serious help, and we certainly hope they get it.

It’s not fun to rip on them unless they have their sh-t at least partially together.

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Tori Spelling: Finally Walking Out on Dean McDermott!

Whether fans believe it or not, Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott are still married. In fact, they recently celebrated their anniversary, vacationing together to “reconnect.”

But apparently, it still wasn’t enough to mend their broken marriage.

In fact, Tori has reportedly walked away from Dean … and is spending more and more time with her mother, Candy. The one who has never liked Dean.

RadarOnline reports that Tori Spelling has walked away from Dean and is seeking comfort in Candy Spelling’s home, according to friends of the couple.

And while that might do wonders for Tori’s current issues, it may spell doom for her marriage.

“Candy has never liked Dean.”

A lot of in-laws may have issues with their, well, in-laws. It sounds like Candy has found Dean to be a disappointment.

“And she’s the first one to say ‘I told you so’ to her daughter.”

Tori went to her anyway, though.

“But Tori has five kids and had nowhere else to turn.”

Tori has had a troubled history with her mother.

Over a decade ago, Tori’s father, TV mogul Aaron Spelling, passed away.

The sudden death of a loved one can cause strain in any family. Add a financial element, and it can create an enduring rift that lasts for years.

See, Tori only inherited $ 800,000 from her father. His widow, Candy, controls the $ 600 million fortune.

Tori and Dean have struggled with finances over the years, which has been widely attributed to their lackluster careers and to their spending habits.

Candy is not unfeeling — she’s been doing a lot to support them.

“She’s been paying the couple’s monthly rent, buying groceries and paying for the children’s private school.”

It looks like things are much better between Tori and Candy. That’s good news … but maybe not happy news for Dean.

“Now that Tori has run off to Candy’s house, maybe Dean will realize how dire this situation is and find a way to keep the family intact.”

Sometimes, it takes something big to function as a wakeup call.

“With Tori out of commission, Dean is changing diapers, driving the kids back and forth to school, and cooking meals.”

Well … that’s a normal part of being a parent. Apparently this is a bit of a change for him, which is … illuminating if true.

“And he’s exhausted.”

Candy has apparently suggested, and the couple has reportedly agreed, that the kids and Tori could spend a couple of nights a week with her … ostensibly to give Dean a break.

“She’s telling Tori that this will work wonders for her marriage.”

But this source claims that Candy has an ulterior motive.

“But really, Candy’s goal is to get her away from Dean for good.”

Instead of trying to push for that directly, she’s allegedly taking baby steps to make Tori reach that conclusion.

“Two days a week is just the first step.”

Wow.

Apparently, a big motivator for Candy was seeing Tori’s mental health scares.

“Candy felt she could no longer sit by and watch Tori unravel, so she jumped into action and opened her doors.”

And she reportedly hopes that this will all work out for her family. Well, for the parts of her family that she values.

“Candy is a shrewd woman, and is hoping Tori may finally be ready to walk out.”

This sounds like it could ultimately lead to what’s best for Tori and the kids. A closer relationship with Candy and perhaps even less stress.

But … is it true?

A lot of it sounds like speculation about Candy’s motives, so we cannot help but feel a little leery.

Perhaps, in time, the truth will become clear.

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