Arie Luyendyk: Look! We Found His Mug Shot!

Think Arie Luyendyk Jr. is having a series of bad days at the moment?

He very clearly is.

That’s what happens after you break your fiancee’s heart on national television and then sound like an insensitive jerk on TV when talking about it…

… and then propose to ANOTHER woman in front of millions of people.

But it turns out that Arie may have had worst days in his past; at least one in particular.

Did you know the controversial Bachelor was once arrested?!?

This isn’t brand new information. It’s been out there for years, ever since Arie was a contestant on The Bachelor.

But it’s maybe worth revisiting now that Luyendyk is very much back in the news.

In October of 2018, Luyendyk was arrested in for driving with a suspended license in Scottsdale, Arizona.

According to court documents obtained by the Daily Mail, he was also ticketed for multiple traffic violations, including speeding, failure to obey a traffic signal, unsafe lane changing and for failing to provide proof of insurance.

He was booked and posed for a mug shot and everything:

Arie didn’t serve any jail time, but this mark is on his permanent record.

The former racecar driver probably doesn’t want us bringing it up again in public.

But c probably didn’t want him to bring ABC cameras along when he dumped her, so, yeah… whatever.

It’s hard to have a lot of sympathy for the guy.

Said Arie to Entertainment Tonight, regarding why he (temporarily) destroyed Becca’s soul in such a manner:

“I just wanted there to be no questions on that breakup. 

“I know that it’s a very public relationship, and I think that doing that on camera would just let everyone know that that decision was solely mine, and it told the story of how I ended up here, with her.”

Ah, right, he did it for Becca.

Arie then had the gall, in this same interview, to complain that he, too, was a victim!

“The way the breakup was shown, I think, in its unedited version, was a little unfair to me,” he added. “But what can you do?

Wait… WHAT?!?

The nerve of this guy!

It was unfair to not edit an interview?!? To simply show exactly what was said on both sides?!? Sheesh.

In the end, Arie says he’s happy to be engaged to Lauren Burnham and Becca will go find a better guy as The Bachelorette.

So everyone basically wins here.

But Arie still sucks.


90 Day Fiance Star David Toborowsky: My Son Was Shot in the Face

90 Day Fiance star David Toborowsky married Annie, even though she’s twice his age and his … well, he didn’t exactly win over a lot of viewers.

But while David is dismissed as a “deadbeat” by his daughter, it looks like he has a better relationship with his son, Jacob, who is 18 years old.

Jacob Toborowsky is currently recovering from a gunshot wound to the face, and David is thanking fans for their prayers as his son struggles with recovery and complications.

Guns are scary, folks.

David took to Facebook a few weeks ago to share the unfortunate news with his followers:

“On behalf of my family we wanted to thank each and everyone of you for the thoughts and prayers that have been sent and said for Jacob Toborowsky.”

Jacob is, of course, his son. He spelled out his name so awkwardly so that he could tag him in it.

The shooting, which is said to have been accidental but is nonetheless serious, took place on January 28th.

“He was shot in the face by a so called friend in a senseless stupid act. We will continue to monitor the situation on a legal front to ensure that justice prevails.”

We have an update on that, as well.

Jacob Toborowsky

His son is alive, but undergoing medical treatment. Because he was shot. In the face.

“Jacob went to Texas today to continue his recovery and possible surgeries. I will update as I can.”

He thanks everyone for their support, prayers, and well wishes.

“Again, we thank you from the bottom of our heart for the prayers and ask for continued prayers as he has a long road ahead of him.”

And, of course, there are updates.

“I wanted to give an update on my son Jacob,” David writes in a separate post.

“He had surgery yesterday down in Houston. The damage to the muscles in his face are more severe than 1st thought.”

Complications can be absolutely brutal.

“The main part of the bullet was removed.”

This was not a Dick Cheney situation — the gunshot came from a handgun.

“Please keep him in your prayers as the road he has is going to be long and hard. Thank you all again for the prayers, messages and thoughts.”

And, in case anyone was worried about the photos of Jacob that David posted, David went ahead and posted a disclaimer.

“I am posting these pics with his permission.”

Jacob’s mother, David’s ex, has also spoken up:

“He has to have surgery tomorrow to have a drain put in.”

A very necessary drain.

“He is accumulating fluid in the wound from the gland that was impacted from the bullet.”

And until the fluid build-up can be addressed, Jacob won’t be able to recover.

“His wound cannot heal with all the drainage.”

But his recovery will take more than healing some tissue, unfortunately.

“Then OT and speech therapy will begin as well. He will have to put bite blocks in his mouth to start trying to get it open.”

OT means occupational therapy. There’s much more to recovery than waiting for the swelling to go down, folks.

“I think I am still in shock from all of this.”

Speaking to RadarOnline, David Toborowsky gives further details on Jacob’s condition.

“Jacob had his surgery on Thursday to remove the bullet.”

That, of course, is only a small piece of the surgical puzzle.

“A significant amount of tissue was damaged. He will never be able to fully open his mouth all the way.”


“A lot of scar tissue had to be cleaned to remove the bullet. There is a lot of deep-tissue scarring.”

He shares what his ex had also revealed.

“He’s going back into surgery on Tuesday. They need to put a drain in for the gland to heal. He was in a lot of pain this weekend. It’s worse than we thought.”

David has also shared what’s happening in Kentucky, on the legal end of things.

“The Commonwealth of Kentucky charged the other kid with 1st degree assault and will go before the grand jury next month.”

Accidental or not, a teenager should know better than to, you know, shoot their friend in the face.

It’s easy — the vast majority of people spend their entire teen years not shooting people. 

Real actions should have real consequences, right? Jacob is certainly facing consequences for the gunshot.

And Jacob will have to live with the aftermath for the rest of his life.